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"Love isn't complicated unhealed people are."We've been ghosted like the rapture happened, love bombed, breadcrumbed, and strung along. We've mistaken attention for affection, attachment for love, and chemistry for covenant. And somehow, despite all the signs, we've convinced ourselves that maybe this time will be different.This isn't just another book for singles trying to figure out relationships. It's for anyone who has ever looked back and thought, "I wish I had known this before." Because relationships don't start at the altar they start long before, in the way we prepare, heal, and choose.This book is about becoming the one. The one who doesn't chase, settle, or shrink to be loved. The one who sees red flags for what they are, not what they hope them to be. The one who understands that love isn't just about feelings it's about wisdom, alignment, and purpose. This book isn't here to sell you fairy tales or unrealistic dreams. It's here to wake you up. To remind you that clarity is better than closure, healing is better than holding on, and peace is the real proof of love. We don't have to beg for love, bargain for commitment, or prove our worth to anyone. The kind of love we're waiting for is the kind we're willing to prepare for.