Unraveling: Falling Apart with Purpose

You have already found the truth about who you are. You believed it, and it was real, and you are still coming apart anyway, and nobody warned you the coming apart would arrive after the revelation instead of before it.UNRAVELING is the book that explains why, and then refuses to fix you.It goes underneath the striving and the managing and the competence everyone praises you for, and finds the thing actually running them: a single conclusion about yourself that you never examined, that nobody with the authority to say what you are ever said, and that has been setting the terms of your life since before you could read. You will watch where it came from. You will watch it lose its standing. And you will find out that what you have been calling dysfunctional has been your own design functioning, at full capacity, to clear out something foreign.This is not another set of steps. There is no staircase in here, because the staircase is one of the things being dismantled. What you get instead is the original language underneath the words you inherited, the courtroom that was never in the garden, a prophet who ran from his greatest victory, and a father who ran down a road.And what you will walk away holding is this.You were never the problem. What you have been treating as a defect was your design all along, and the coming apart you have been bracing against is just one of the instruments being used to reveal you.So stop refusing the unraveling.What is coming loose was never you.If you're ready to walk in the freedom that has always been yours, this is your invitation to fall apart with purpose.