THE WILL TO HEAL

For most of us, life began with lots of great dreams and aspirations. But along the way, those hopes were shattered. Unfortunately, often the ones who shattered them are the ones closest to us, the ones we admire the most, the ones we care for the most. Why? Because when the heart loves, it pours out love unreservedly; therefore, when it gives so much and receives nothing or very little in return, it bleeds out tears of pain to relieve itself of the emotional hurts. It may even be scarred for life unless something is done about it. When the heart is broken, the mind becomes confused. This state of mind-confusion results in the lack of mental clarity, an intellectual fogginess, and an inability to do what the mind was created to think positively and act rationally. The heart-and-mind symbiotic relationship is so complex that when one gets hurt, the other feels the pain. When one is sick, the other is sick also. Therefore, you must heal your heart from emotional pain before you can heal the mind. Life's disappointments leave us broken, bewildered, and emotionally sick. They leave emotional scars printed on every fiber of our beings and affect us far beyond explanation. They impact our ability to trust, love, be assertive, explore, and live life to its fullest. These heart-and-mind issues lead to constant emotional pain and unresolved grief, which then leads to anger, unforgiveness, resentment, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and social issues that affect the very foundation of life our families, our society, and our world. These unresolved griefs are at the very root of all evil thoughts, actions, and illnesses. They turn us into walking monsters. We act cruelly even to our own flesh and blood relatives and our lovers. They turn us into insensitive beings to strangers. >Our ability to trust, love, and care for one another vanishes, and our society becomes like a monster-ward. We walk around hurting each other with no sense of care or remorse, because hurting people hurt people. >How can you restore that sense of peace you once had? How can you heal your broken heart? How can you forgive those who hurt you, for your own sake? How can you resolve your unresolved grief? >I've done my best to make this one of the best books about emotional health you can read, addressing the issues of both the heart and the mind. Whether or not I have succeeded remains to be seen, but I strongly believe that addressing these issues must be your personal top priority. I have written through the lens of a certified Grief Recovery specialist and life coach to get you out of your emotional pain and help you start living a life full of meaning and purpose. I pray that you will find peace of mind through the pages of this book!

Pages: 278, Paperback, Independently published