The Sibling Peace Plan: Stop Fighting Without Being a Referee

Sibling fights can make even a steady parent feel powerless: every disagreement becomes a trial, every toy becomes evidence, and you end up stuck in the role of referee. The Sibling Peace Plan is a practical, calm guide to reducing sibling conflict without pretending children will never clash. Instead of chasing who is right, you will learn to change the conditions that make fights predictable: stress, unclear expectations, and the pull of attention. Naya Kirell offers a clear framework built for real homes. You will identify fight triggers, set family house rules that prevent escalation, and use simple parenting scripts that keep you neutral while still firmly in charge. You will also teach repair after fighting so your children learn how to make things right without being forced into fake apologies, and you will build routines for siblings that lower friction around transitions, space, and shared resources. This book is for parents and carers of two (or more) children who are tired of daily shouting, grabbing, and tattling - and who want fewer blow-ups and faster recovery when conflict happens. With practical tools for calm down steps, attention balance, and consequences for fighting that actually teach, The Sibling Peace Plan helps you stop managing the same argument on repeat and start building a family culture where rules are clear, repair is normal, and peace is something you can plan for.