The Joseph W. South Collection Masculine Paradox

The Art of the Unintentional From Joseph W. South, author of the landmark Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man, comes Masculine Paradox: The Art of Unintentional Influence. The masculine paradox is simple: the harder you chase external validation, the faster it runs away. True power is not demanded; it is a byproduct of absolute self-sovereignty. This is the art of unintentional influence. Almost everything at the higher levels of life looks contradictory to a man still standing at the intermediate stage. Remain faithful, or remain alive. Be silent, or be heard. Hold power, or hold back. Every one of those is a false choice made by a man who hasn't yet grown enough to see how both halves fit - and the mastery is in holding both at once. At a live workshop in front of roughly two hundred women, David Deida put several men on stage and asked which they would take home tonight, and which they would keep. The women were nearly unanimous - one man took both categories. The men in the audience, asked to predict the result first, did no better than chance. Then Deida pulled the runner-up aside, whispered one correction to how he was standing, and sent him back. He became the first choice. Height played no role. Conventional handsomeness played no role. Inside, you'll learn how to: - Train Attention and Calm - meditation sits at the heart of this book: watching your own discomfort, fear and wiring without obeying any of it- Retire the Excuses - height, money, appearance are convenient lies that protect a man from responsibility. Genes may load the gun; choice pulls the trigger- Stop Broadcasting - why the muscle shirt and the constant talking transmit the exact opposite of what a man intends- Remain Faithful and Remain Alive - the monogamy dilemma answered without pretending one side of it doesn't exist- Beat the Four Enemies - fear, clarity, power and old age: the obstacles that end most men's development, and how each one is passed- Become the Pursued - three chapters with a man who stopped chasing entirely, and what changed when he did The battlefield is not the bar. It is the mind itself. Stop broadcasting. Start being felt.