Lost In Place

PRAISE FOR LOST IN PLACE “Clarity. That’s what you’ll come away with after reading this excellent book. Your kid may be lost, but as a parent, you’ll no longer be at a loss for what to do—and why.”—MEG JAY, PhD, author of The Defining Decade and The Twentysomething Treatment “This down-to-earth, practical book will be helpful to parents struggling to improve and strengthen their relationships with their adult children.”—LAURENCE STEINBERG, author of You and Your Adult Child: How to Grow Together in Challenging Times “A compassionate, deeply practical roadmap for parents navigating one of the hardest and least understood times of family life. What a gift to readers.”—JENNIFER WALLACE, New York Times bestselling author of Mattering and Never Enough “Lost in Place is the essential manual for the challenges of parenting children who are struggling with the transition to adulthood. Muench has lived these challenges herself as a parent and speaks with a degree of wisdom and authenticity that is as refreshing as it is helpful. Her guidance is concrete and situation specific—an essential support for parents of struggling transitioners.”—MARK MCCONVILLE, PhD, author of Failure to Launch: Why Your Twentysomething Hasn’t Grown Up… and What to Do About It Practical, judgment-free guidance for parents when an adult child won't launch With one in three U.S. adults ages 18 to 34 still living at home, millions of parents face an emotionally complex stage no one prepared them for. In Lost in Place: How to Support, Motivate, and Launch an Adult Child, certified parent coach Kim Muench delivers secular, shame-free guidance rooted in professional coaching and her own lived experience navigating addiction and mental health challenges. Lost in Place introduces a clear framework built around three elements parents can control: how they show up, what they provide, and how they respond. Through real-life case studies, relatable stories, and ”Parent Points to Ponder” reflection prompts, the book helps readers shift from fear-based reactions to confident, boundaried leadership. QR-linked resources extend learning beyond the page. Readers will also find: Tools for setting healthy financial boundaries when adult children rely on parental support for housing, groceries, and utilities Strategies to address mental health struggles, motivation gaps, and other barriers preventing emerging adults from gaining independence Guidance on replacing fear-based parenting reactions with calm, confident responses grounded in empathy and clarity Real-life scenarios and illustrative case studies that model effective communication between parents and their adult children Practical approaches for transforming family dynamics without resorting to tough-love ultimatums or shame-based tactics Lost in Place is written for parents navigating the emotional and financial toll of supporting an emerging adult who has not launched. Therapists, parent coaches, and educators will also find it a valuable resource for guiding clients through this increasingly common family challenge.