Kind is Not Nice: How High Performers Stop Being Used Without Becoming Bitter

Kind Is Not NiceHow High Performers Stop Being Used Without Becoming Bitter by Kerwin BoxillYou're dependable. You're capable. You care.And somehow... you're exhausted.If you're the one everyone relies on - at work, in relationships, in life - but your own needs keep coming last, this book was written for you.Kind Is Not Nice exposes one of the most damaging myths high performers live by: that being agreeable is the same as being good.It's not.In this clear, grounded, no-nonsense guide, resilience and execution speaker Kerwin Boxill shows how kindness without boundaries leads to burnout, resentment, and quiet self-betrayal - while clarity builds respect, peace, and strength.This isn't about becoming cold. It's about becoming whole.In this book, you'll learn: - Why capable, reliable people are the first to be overused- How to say no without guilt, over-explaining, or apology- How to handle pushback and emotional manipulation calmly- Why peace - not pressure - is the real form of power- How to move from people-pleasing to self-leadershipThis is not motivational hype or pop psychology.It's a practical, experience-driven guide for professionals, leaders, and high performers who are done betraying themselves in the name of being "nice."If you're ready to: - Reclaim your time and energy- Set boundaries without becoming bitter- Earn respect without asking for it- And live with clarity instead of constant obligationKind Is Not Nice will change how you think, decide, and show up.Be kind. Not nice. And never apologize for it again.

Pages: 108, Paperback, Independently published